Not having a good day? Is it because you fought with your
partner, got a firing from your boss, not feeling well, something did not go as
expected, missing your old self or whatever the reason is; dealing with a bad
mood is taxing and can negatively influence your entire day or even days
to follow.
Below are 9 ways by which you
can get that mind back in order-
1. Eat:
Well, it may sound a little naive but treating yourself or to binge on your favorite
food would instantly lift up your bad mood. Science says (simply put) that
having sinful foods which are high in carbohydrates releases acids which affect
the mood lifting areas of your brain. So whenever you feel low, eat something
you like. PS: I crave for things like chicken salad, ice-creams, chocolates or
anything which I haven’t eaten in a while.
2. Dial a friend:
A friend in need is a friend indeed! Call, Text, Chat and talk to your friend about your present state of
mind. In case you fall under the category of people who sulk inside and don’t open
up, this is the most efficient way to beat that freakishness of your mood. It’s an
age old formula and I personally vouch for it. But be careful of who you talk
to for speaking to the wrong person would worsen things. Seek someone who knows
you well and really cares for you.
3. Play your
favorite music: Music for centuries has had a crucial role in human psychology.
Grab those headphones if you are in public or if at home just put some great
feet tapping music and sing along. Please! Please! Please! Do not play tracks
that aid your already depressed state of mind. Music shall not give you any
sympathy! So just sit back and play some good tracks. It will distract you and
help you think clearly.
4. Sleep:
Yes, this works wonders. Taking a quick nap would calm your disturbed emotional
state and more importantly it will kill time! The most difficult part in overcoming a bad mood is not being able to concentrate and the mental clock suddenly seems
to stop ticking. However, you can easily do this at home but when at work or in public go to a quiet place, close your eyes and spend a few minutes alone.
In any case it would prevent you from taking any impulsive action.
5. Mirror! Mirror!
On the wall: When angry, stand in front of the mirror and take out your
frustration. You would trick your mind into talking to the relevant person who
caused you the pain or turn the situation into a person and relieve you of your
anxiety. It’s a quick and easiest method to relax yourself.
6. Shopping:
This may seem more relevant to women but yes shopping is an instant mood
booster. Buying new things for yourself completely distracts you and boosts
your morale.
7. Pen it
down: This is for those deep thinkers and introverts who find it difficult
to be vocal about things. Grab a piece of paper and pour your thoughts on it. It
would instantly clear out that haze in your mind and give you a go ahead for
your next action.
8. Set a
timeline: This is a difficult one. But if you practice you will get better
at it eventually. Give yourself a mental time frame of sulking over the ugly
mood. Ask yourself, are there better things for me to do in life than sulking
over this? If the answer is yes then stop complaining,try one of the above methods and you are
good to go. If the answer is no, ask again and think deeper this time. Console
yourself and do a self pep talk. Think of all those things you have
achieved. It will give you the confidence and ability to deal with the situation heads on.
9. Search
for the cause: Last but not the least, having tried one of the above
tricks, at the end of the day look for the real reason for you feeling low.
Speak to the concerned person and explain what you felt. If it is because of
your own action, be careful to not repeat it.
Taking care of your emotions is your responsibility. Human beings
tend to fall prey to negativity more easily than anything else. Blaming it on
the world comes in very handy but acting upon it and taking charge to cure it
is difficult. Being conscious and self aware of your feelings is a sure shot
way to achieve more clarity of thought and leading a sorted life.
Love.