How often have you been in a situation where you have to pick
one between two of your favorite things? If you say not many, god really has
blessed you! But otherwise, majority of the human race has been into this
numerous times. With “things” it’s still easy, the challenge occurs when you
have to choose between either ways of reacting to something you feel vulnerable
about.
At different stages in your life, you will encounter situations
where you really aren’t sure of the consequences. Should I marry this guy or
that guy? Should I tell my parents I want to quit engineering/medical/CA
etc.(Basically whatever you did not want to pursue by your choice)? Should I
tell my partner what annoys me? Should I leave my job to pursue my dreams? Should
I follow my heart or mind? Should I this or that? Tough it is.
How many times have you “Should..ied”? Yes, It is annoying to
find yourself in this zone. But the positive side, you have them. Choice is a
privilege that not many enjoy ;). The key to this zone I feel is acceptance.
Accept that there are things you may not have answers to. Instead of reacting
right there and then, wait. Think through. Stop judging yourself; you may not
have answers to them now, but surely you will have them sometime. And even if
you don’t, leave it to time. It will help you decide on your priorities. How?
Try it to know it ;)
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